I’ve been married to my wife, Pat, for ten years — and yes, this is my second marriage. Along the way, I’ve learned a lot and made my fair share of mistakes. Pat works hard. Until recently, she cared for her aging mother — and she’s truly a wonderful person and wife. Every day, for as long as I can remember, I’ve brought Pat coffee in bed. Early in our marriage, I did it without much thought — until I realized how much she loved it. That small act of kindness has taken on a whole new meaning for both of us.
It’s simple.
No bells and whistles.
No motive.
Just love — and a few quiet minutes together to talk about the news, our day, or our kids.
For my youngest daughter, Zoe, who sometimes gets a ride to school, I pack her backpack and lunch and place them in the car. I know — she’s supposed to learn responsibility. But sometimes I wonder… How will our daughters recognize positive qualities in a partner if we don’t show them what those qualities look like? I hold the car door for all of my daughters (ages 15, 28, and 34). It’s a small gesture, but the small things are the big things. My two oldest girls don’t live with me anymore, but I still send them a heart emoji or a short “thinking of you” text. They know no reply is needed — and I know they appreciate it.
We were all children once. nd to our parents, we’ll always be their children. They remember us as the babies, the toddlers, the teens — and whether we get along with them or not, we owe them something. Maybe it’s a phone call, an invitation to dinner, or just a note that says, “I love you.”If your parents have passed on, keep them in your heart. Remember them on the holidays, or on what would have been their birthdays. And if there’s distance or hurt between you — fix it.
Now.
Don’t wait, because days become weeks… and weeks become years. And when time runs out, regret can last a lifetime. We all carry our parents in our hearts. Making peace with them while they’re here keeps you from being haunted when they’re gone.
The Power of Consistency — it’s not about grand gestures. It’s about the small, steady acts of love that mean everything.
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